Obituaries

Earl Walker
B: 1927-04-17
D: 2017-08-16
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Walker, Earl
Wanda Gossett
B: 1925-08-24
D: 2017-08-14
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Gossett, Wanda
Carol Self
B: 1949-05-28
D: 2017-08-12
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Self, Carol
Erba Skinner
B: 1931-02-07
D: 2017-07-28
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Skinner, Erba
Michael Marshall
B: 1952-05-05
D: 2017-07-23
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Marshall, Michael
Judith Geiger
B: 1955-09-16
D: 2017-07-21
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Geiger, Judith
Leona Sikes
B: 1925-11-18
D: 2017-07-20
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Sikes, Leona
Presley Morgan
B: 2015-06-06
D: 2017-07-15
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Morgan, Presley
Brandon Hightower
B: 1984-02-13
D: 2017-07-09
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Hightower, Brandon
Alvin Kiker
B: 1939-01-03
D: 2017-06-29
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Kiker, Alvin
Betty Greathouse
B: 1932-11-21
D: 2017-06-29
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Greathouse, Betty
Vern Stockard
B: 1948-06-12
D: 2017-06-28
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Stockard, Vern
Orene Onstott
B: 1934-01-29
D: 2017-06-26
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Onstott, Orene
Jimmie Richards
B: 1932-05-16
D: 2017-06-17
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Richards, Jimmie
Fortunato Pacheco
B: 1937-10-14
D: 2017-06-02
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Pacheco, Fortunato
Isaias Baca
B: 1930-03-26
D: 2017-06-02
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Baca, Isaias
Royce Clark
B: 1930-06-13
D: 2017-05-27
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Clark, Royce
Helen Jones
B: 1921-10-31
D: 2017-05-27
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Jones, Helen
Roy Montano
B: 1960-08-07
D: 2017-05-20
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Montano, Roy
Nellie Hern
B: 1932-06-14
D: 2017-05-18
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Hern, Nellie
Joyce Fraze
B: 1934-01-18
D: 2017-05-14
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Fraze, Joyce

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